In my line of work, as a spiritual advisor, I find so many people complaining about their “string of failed relationships.” They complain about this as if it is something wrong, something that is wrong with them, or something that could be avoided if only they made better choices. This isn’t the case. You are SUPPOSED to have a string of failed relationships that lead to whomever you are ultimately supposed to be with. If they weren’t failed relationships, you would still be in them. Which would mean you would be unavailable for the relationship(s) you are meant to experience in the future.

Life isn’t about the destination, it is about the journey. You likely have heard this saying before, but this time I want you to contemplate it. Consider it, hold it, understand it. Really grasp what it means, all of the implications expressed in such a simple statement. Enjoy each relationship for what it is. Learn what you should, teach what you can, and have fun! And when it is over, be grateful for the time you had and the lessons exchanged in the process.

Please share a link to this post with others, I believe it contains a simple yet powerful message!

~Anyanka