Comments on: The Spiritual Message of Failed Relationships http://witchescupboard.info/spiritualpath/the-spiritual-message-of-failed-relationships/ new age & spiritual guidance Thu, 17 May 2012 05:04:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Mom Raven http://witchescupboard.info/spiritualpath/the-spiritual-message-of-failed-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-566 Mom Raven Mon, 17 May 2010 13:02:21 +0000 http://witchescupboard.info/?p=217#comment-566 Your article is well needed and should be well recieved. Being in the Crone stage of my life and having lost 2 partners/husbands to the underworld; I questioned my Karma and my path in depth. When I did get up again (and again), I found that there were lessons learned which brought me to and prepared me for the next stage of my life journey. Unfortunately, I do believe that one only grows from negative change. The spiritual warrior always is fighting for spiritual elightenment. It is recieved, just not when you want it to but when you have learned the lesson handed to you. Are these failed relationships? No, but they ended and one without any warning. I still stood beside you and had to realize that what didn't kill me did make me stronger but more importantly, made me harder to kill. After 3 years now of 'trying on' new short termed relationships and having them fail, I realized that what I needed to fix/find was within. I needed to become the spiritual warrior again. I am now grateful and therefore, my gift was given. His name is Jimmy and he has loved me for years. It took my hard and painful lessons (didn't call them lessons (grrrrr...)during the re-awakening) to make me humbley ask for help to crawl out of my hole and see that there was one now beside me instead of behind me. Life is always about balance. Feel your expierences, no matter how painful or lost they seem; for there is a growing lesson to be learned which will make you wiser. When you are ready, take the wisdom and be grateful and you will move on to another. Your article is well needed and should be well recieved. Being in the Crone stage of my life and having lost 2 partners/husbands to the underworld; I questioned my Karma and my path in depth. When I did get up again (and again), I found that there were lessons learned which brought me to and prepared me for the next stage of my life journey.
Unfortunately, I do believe that one only grows from negative change. The spiritual warrior always is fighting for spiritual elightenment. It is recieved, just not when you want it to but when you have learned the lesson handed to you.
Are these failed relationships? No, but they ended and one without any warning. I still stood beside you and had to realize that what didn’t kill me did make me stronger but more importantly, made me harder to kill.
After 3 years now of ‘trying on’ new short termed relationships and having them fail, I realized that what I needed to fix/find was within. I needed to become the spiritual warrior again. I am now grateful and therefore, my gift was given. His name is Jimmy and he has loved me for years. It took my hard and painful lessons (didn’t call them lessons (grrrrr…)during the re-awakening) to make me humbley ask for help to crawl out of my hole and see that there was one now beside me instead of behind me.
Life is always about balance. Feel your expierences, no matter how painful or lost they seem; for there is a growing lesson to be learned which will make you wiser. When you are ready, take the wisdom and be grateful and you will move on to another.

]]> By: Witches Cupboard http://witchescupboard.info/spiritualpath/the-spiritual-message-of-failed-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-558 Witches Cupboard Sun, 16 May 2010 22:43:33 +0000 http://witchescupboard.info/?p=217#comment-558 I appreciate you sharing this quote! I am sure many people can find comfort in it. Blessings to you and yours! I appreciate you sharing this quote! I am sure many people can find comfort in it. Blessings to you and yours!

]]> By: Lilith Maiden http://witchescupboard.info/spiritualpath/the-spiritual-message-of-failed-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-556 Lilith Maiden Sun, 16 May 2010 21:30:01 +0000 http://witchescupboard.info/?p=217#comment-556 This is very well said. Even though it really is a drag to have to go through so many horrible relationships, I do agree with you on one thing....that you should learn what you can from each one. And also I think that what you can learn from each relationship will help you as a person in the long run. But remember...don't make the new person pay for what the past has done. This is very well said. Even though it really is a drag to have to go through so many horrible relationships, I do agree with you on one thing….that you should learn what you can from each one. And also I think that what you can learn from each relationship will help you as a person in the long run. But remember…don’t make the new person pay for what the past has done.

]]> By: Draco http://witchescupboard.info/spiritualpath/the-spiritual-message-of-failed-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-555 Draco Sun, 16 May 2010 21:21:00 +0000 http://witchescupboard.info/?p=217#comment-555 I found a quote a few years ago that really helped me. I would like to share it with you; "Life is a series of lessons. The more I aligned with knowing that I was being given gifts to grow from-the less I believed that the purpose of life was to punish me-the easier life became." I did not write down who said that so cannot give proper credit. I keep this posted on my mirror in my bathroom so I remind myself of it daily. Thank you I found a quote a few years ago that really helped me. I would like to share it with you;

“Life is a series of lessons. The more I aligned with knowing that I was being given gifts to grow from-the less I believed that the purpose of life was to punish me-the easier life became.”

I did not write down who said that so cannot give proper credit. I keep this posted on my mirror in my bathroom so I remind myself of it daily.

Thank you

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